Comments on: 13th Step Syndrome http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/ specialising in dependencies: compulsions and recovery Fri, 26 Feb 2010 19:02:10 +0000 hourly 1 By: Affie Adagio http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/comment-page-1/#comment-125074 Affie Adagio Tue, 24 Jun 2008 04:02:44 +0000 http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/#comment-125074 @ Kitty: The 13th Stepper is the one who is supposedly a healthier or more knowing person than the one who has been 13th stepped. In other words someone who is in a better place of their recovery than the person they had the intimate relationship with no matter what the length of their recovery. Usually the guide is responsible for the person needing guidance and needs to avoid sexual involvement. This also applies to therapists and teachers and people in such positions of authority. @ Kitty: The 13th Stepper is the one who is supposedly a healthier or more knowing person than the one who has been 13th stepped. In other words someone who is in a better place of their recovery than the person they had the intimate relationship with no matter what the length of their recovery. Usually the guide is responsible for the person needing guidance and needs to avoid sexual involvement. This also applies to therapists and teachers and people in such positions of authority.

]]> By: Kitty http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/comment-page-1/#comment-103238 Kitty Sat, 29 Mar 2008 03:10:12 +0000 http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/#comment-103238 What do you do if you were 13th stepped? If I am not a newcomer is it my fault? What do you do if you were 13th stepped? If I am not a newcomer is it my fault?

]]> By: Gary Carter http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/comment-page-1/#comment-88304 Gary Carter Thu, 31 Jan 2008 03:28:48 +0000 http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/#comment-88304 Whatever happened to living by the Golden Rule? Some great leaders wrote it as the equivalent of "Don't screw anybody in the way you wouldn't want to be screwed." That is a start. But it really works when you realize it as, "Do to others what you would have them do to you." Now that is powerful! The power is in realizing that I am "it" in this great tag game of life! Gary www.LifeCoach411.com Whatever happened to living by the Golden Rule?

Some great leaders wrote it as the equivalent of “Don’t screw anybody in the way you wouldn’t want to be screwed.” That is a start.

But it really works when you realize it as, “Do to others what you would have them do to you.” Now that is powerful!

The power is in realizing that I am “it” in this great tag game of life!

Gary
http://www.LifeCoach411.com

]]> By: Affie Adagio http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/comment-page-1/#comment-82384 Affie Adagio Wed, 02 Jan 2008 10:02:52 +0000 http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/#comment-82384 @ Martin Robinson, go to my home page and type in 13th Step and you will get all the posts I have written on the subject which I am sure will help you understand it better and how to avoid falling into that trap. @ Martin Robinson, go to my home page and type in 13th Step and you will get all the posts I have written on the subject which I am sure will help you understand it better and how to avoid falling into that trap.

]]> By: martin robinson http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/comment-page-1/#comment-71563 martin robinson Sun, 11 Nov 2007 23:53:02 +0000 http://www.affie.com.au/13th-step-syndrome/#comment-71563 What exactly is the 13th step and how can I identify if I am falling into that trap? What exactly is the 13th step and how can I identify if I am falling into that trap?

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