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]]> By: Anita Jackson http://www.affie.com.au/planning-your-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-38770 Anita Jackson Sun, 20 May 2007 11:39:05 +0000 http://www.affie.com.au/planning-your-relationship/#comment-38770 Making a blueprint and planning your relationship is important. However I would not want it to be the first step. I believe each of you in the relationship must know what it is you want, know your values and what you believe in and, most importantly, you must love yourself. In loving yourself you have more love to give to your loved one...and guess what...love comes bouncing straight back. Isn't this true for you...when you feel the love come to you from your loved one, don't you want to give it straight back. Even if you're angry, I bet you begin to soften. I know this is so for me. Once you know what you want, then you could compare both your visions. It is important to stay true to youself in this...what are your values, what could you compromise on and what is core to you? Anita Jackson, author of "Rekindle the Magic in Your Relationship ~ Making Love Work" www.rekindlethemagic.com Making a blueprint and planning your relationship is important. However I would not want it to be the first step.

I believe each of you in the relationship must know what it is you want, know your values and what you believe in and, most importantly, you must love yourself. In loving yourself you have more love to give to your loved one…and guess what…love comes bouncing straight back. Isn’t this true for you…when you feel the love come to you from your loved one, don’t you want to give it straight back. Even if you’re angry, I bet you begin to soften. I know this is so for me.

Once you know what you want, then you could compare both your visions. It is important to stay true to youself in this…what are your values, what could you compromise on and what is core to you?

Anita Jackson, author of “Rekindle the Magic in Your Relationship ~ Making Love Work” http://www.rekindlethemagic.com

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